” Trouble is a part of your life, and if you don’t share it, you don’t give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough.”
As men, sometimes we tend to keep things all bottled up inside of us and try to handle things on our own. We try to be macho and see sharing as a weakness of sorts I suppose. That is really not a healthy way to handle things and can create a lot of stress in our lives. Some just don’t want to trouble others with their problems.
Women seem to be better than men about sharing the issues of their life with others. I suppose it is just a part of the nature of women to talk things over with others sometimes in circuitous dialogue. I do think there has to be some common ground in sharing in that we don’t want to weigh others down too much with what is troubling us, but it is always a good idea to share.