Tony A. Smith





  •  It’s really okay to stop and ask for directions. I won’t think any less of you if you do. I would prefer that to driving an hour out of our way because you think you know where you are going. Better yet, why not invest in a GPS?
  • Don’t leave the toilet seat up. I don’t particularly like having my butt fall in the water if I have to get up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night.
  • Make me feel important.
  • Treat me with respect. I like having you open car doors for me, letting me go first when we go in a building, or into the house, and when you pull my seat out for me and push it in. 
  • Surprise me sometimes with flowers, a movie night or dinner night you have planned. I would also like it if you took me on a picnic to the park once in a while.
  • Hold my hand. I like it when you show me affection not expecting anything in return. 
  • Show thoughtfulness. If you are going to be late, call by letting me know. 
  • Don’t look at other women with radar eyes when you are with me. If you are on a date with me don’t be scanning the area for your next date. It makes me feel terrible inside!
  • Let me talk if I want to talk and pay attention to what I am saying. When your eyes start looking like those donuts with the white icing on them, I know you are not with me. 
  • Make sure you are clean; your nails are cleaned out, your hair is at least combed, and your clothes are not disheveled. 


  1. All I can say? AMEN!! Great post!
    Author, Cat Lyon 🙂 Happy Holidays 🙂

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  2. cperrington says:

    Good list. I agree with all of these except No. 2. Although I usually put the seat down after I use our bathroom, I’ve never understood why it’s so difficult for a woman to look at the toilet to see if the seat is up or down before using. No man I know asks his wife to automatically put the seat up after she’s done.

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  3. osarobohenry says:

    Great post Tony. This is awesome 🙂 I love it 😆

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